How does the EGO program behave? She immediately declares: "Mine! I want!". And quickly forms an EGO-dependence. If one of the partners is less susceptible, then his dependence is not formed or is being formed, but to a lesser extent. They are usually men. They are most often driven by a desire for physical intimacy and a fear of responsibility (if they are ripe for responsibility). Sometimes it is enough for women just to be near, to see, to feed, to take care of. Sex, of course, too, but this comes later, since the partner must be checked for marriage, decency and other attributes of solidity. After all, a man is a potential life companion.
The broken heart phenomenon occurs quite often. In a society of selfishly oriented beings, this is one of the most common causes of depression , especially in women. Those who got under the distribution, I will probably upset. There is no unrequited love, but there is unrequited ego dependence. It is expressed in a simple phrase: "I want to have, but I can't." To avoid misunderstandings, I will clarify.
An egoist cannot love (this was discussed in previous publications, but I will repeat myself). Moreover, an altruist cannot either. Love is a state in which you can stay. It can be called a resonance of two souls, allowing one to perceive the Basis of Being, to which the body reacts with a stream of bliss, tenderness and love. So, two met, were filled with sympathy and a stream arose ...
So, what is Love and ego-addiction figured out. Now let's figure out what it means to love. So that the flow of Love is not interrupted, the "lover" must:
- Accept a person unconditionally and completely.
- Wish him happiness near, far, with yourself or with anyone. If only he (she) were happy.
- Do not interfere in his life until the person asks for it. It is possible to give gifts if it does not interrupt the flow.
Moreover, such love is completely disinterested. It is focused on giving, not receiving. And only in this case a person can be in the stream of Love. Beloved left with another and she feels good - you are happy. A beloved meets with a friend and she makes him happy - hug your friend and rejoice with her in general happiness.
For love, there are no distances. Those who wish each other happiness can merge into one and be in the flow of Love, even being on different continents. Phones and internet are not needed. You will say that this is fantastic? Do not hurry. For me and those who have awakened to live in the present moment, this is not an everyday reality, since life turns into a never-ending magical act.
A world where there are no boundaries for relationships, in which you can give Love and Affection at will and without restrictions - this is a reality that terrifies only those who are obsessed with creating a myth about happiness outside, which can be bought, obtained and kept with oneself and for oneself ... This is true for bodily pleasures, but for the soul, it is a scam.
The rich get their hearts broken too. Those who are devoured by the inflamed EGO-addiction in the form of a "broken" heart have no time for money or delicacies. They suffer from the loss of what they never had, from self-pity, from an unsatisfied desire to have, resentment and unwillingness to live. This is what blocks the perception of the flow of Love.
Awakening opens the eyes of the sleeping person to the true state of affairs. He is in a stream of happiness and clearly sees how the intervention of the EGOUMA affects this state. Everything quickly falls into place. A person comes to impersonal perception, becomes the master of his tools (ego-program and mind) and lives the current moment as he considers necessary, i.e. in harmony with the world, since he himself is the source of this harmony. He evolves from a Homo sapiens into an awakened man, free from suffering. I would like to sincerely thank those who are actively involved in the support, development and work of the project.
