Broken heart is the cause of depression

How does the EGO program behave? She immediately declares: "Mine! I want!". And quickly forms an EGO-dependence. If one of the partners is less susceptible, then his dependence is not formed or is being formed, but to a lesser extent. They are usually men. They are most often driven by a desire for physical intimacy and a fear of responsibility (if they are ripe for responsibility). Sometimes it is enough for women just to be near, to see, to feed, to take care of. Sex, of course, too, but this comes later, since the partner must be checked for marriage, decency and other attributes of solidity. After all, a man is a potential life companion.

The broken heart phenomenon occurs quite often. In a society of selfishly oriented beings, this is one of the most common causes of  depression , especially in women. Those who got under the distribution, I will probably upset. There is no unrequited love, but there is unrequited ego dependence. It is expressed in a simple phrase: "I want to have, but I can't." To avoid misunderstandings, I will clarify. 

An egoist cannot love (this was discussed in previous publications, but I will repeat myself). Moreover, an altruist cannot either. Love is a state in which you can stay. It can be called a resonance of two souls, allowing one to perceive the Basis of Being, to which the body reacts with a stream of bliss, tenderness and love. So, two met, were filled with sympathy and a stream arose ... 

So, what is Love and ego-addiction figured out. Now let's figure out what it means to love. So that the flow of Love is not interrupted, the "lover" must: 

• Accept a person unconditionally and completely.
• Wish him happiness near, far, with yourself or with anyone. If only he (she) were happy.
• Do not interfere in his life until the person asks for it. It is possible to give gifts if it does not interrupt the flow. 

Moreover, such love is completely disinterested. It is focused on giving, not receiving. And only in this case a person can be in the stream of Love. Beloved left with another and she feels good - you are happy. A beloved meets with a friend and she makes him happy - hug your friend and rejoice with her in general happiness. 

For love, there are no distances. Those who wish each other happiness can merge into one and be in the flow of Love, even being on different continents. Phones and internet are not needed. You will say that this is fantastic? Do not hurry. For me and those who have awakened to live in the present moment, this is not an everyday reality, since life turns into a never-ending magical act.  

A world where there are no boundaries for relationships, in which you can give Love and Affection at will and without restrictions - this is a reality that terrifies only those who are obsessed with creating a myth about happiness outside, which can be bought, obtained and kept with oneself and for oneself ... This is true for bodily pleasures, but for the soul, it is a scam. 

The rich get their hearts broken too. Those who are devoured by the inflamed EGO-addiction in the form of a "broken" heart have no time for money or delicacies. They suffer from the loss of what they never had, from self-pity, from an unsatisfied desire to have, resentment and unwillingness to live. This is what blocks the perception of the flow of Love. 

Awakening opens the eyes of the sleeping person to the true state of affairs. He is in a stream of happiness and clearly sees how the intervention of the EGOUMA affects this state. Everything quickly falls into place. A person comes to impersonal perception, becomes the master of his tools (ego-program and mind) and lives the current moment as he considers necessary, i.e. in harmony with the world, since he himself is the source of this harmony. He evolves from a Homo sapiens into an awakened man, free from suffering. I would like to sincerely thank those who are actively involved in the support, development and work of the project. 

Causes of depression and what is happiness

The causes of depression are  easy to formulate. They are obvious and straightforward. Surprisingly
different. Why, with their obviousness, they are not taken into account in the healing of such an insidious disease. For what purpose is mankind persistently forming an attitude toward egoistic aspirations associated with the achievement of external goals that supposedly lead to happiness? According to established rules, a real man should: 

• Realized as a person.
• Achieve a certain level of well-being (build a house).
• Form a family and raise a descendant (son).
• Compensate for the harm done to the planet in solving previous problems (plant a tree).

The role of women in a patriarchal society is somewhat more modest: 

• Give birth to a son.
• To help a man on the path of self-realization.

In the struggle for equal rights, women won Pyrrhova - they are now allowed to:

• Develop intelligence and be realized as a person.
• To do what was previously available only to men (engage in business, politics, work in hazardous industries and even fight).
• To do everything that a real man had to do before.

Let me remind you that 2/3 of humanity suffering from depression are women . He is inclined to believe that they received the right to suffering caused by this ailment along with other gains in the struggle for equality. It is generally accepted that happiness is present on the whole life path of real women and men doing what they should. 

But is it really so? Is there happiness at all, and what is it? Men find it difficult to answer this question, and CIS women usually answer: "Happiness is when children are healthy and the husband does not drink." What is real happiness will become clear later, but for now we continue to consider the topic we have begun .

Please note that all the tasks facing modern women and men can be safely attributed to external ones. You ask: " But what about intelligence and personality ?" At first glance, these are internal aspects. But only at first glance. Why? - you ask, and the answer to this question will bring us very close to identifying the true reasons for a significant part of the population of our planet to be depressed.

Followers of religions and esoteric teachings, gurus and realized masters, special services and psychologists realize that the Person i.e. EGO - program and UM (intellect) - are tools that a person can control, or can be identified with them, falling under their control. How this happens and why the striving for external values ​​does not make a person happy can be learned from the following publications. 

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